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(01-12-2018, 06:25 PM)KOMMA Wrote:
(01-12-2018, 06:17 PM)KOMMA Wrote: Jordan Peterson on self-respect.

He's so passionate, and intense.





The only time I've seen him smile in sheer happiness is when he rarely speaks about his wife.

Professor Toni Noble 'Build self-respect, not self-esteem' at Young Minds 2013.




Interesting shift the academics are making, Toni Noble and others like her in the education cycle that goes around and around, and comes back to the beginning, where many began nearly a century ago.

I noticed that she didn't mention the word "BOUNDARIES".

When parents have boundaries, so do their children.

Parents have self-respect when they have boundaries in place.

Toni put the responsibility of a "lack of empathy", experienced with the children, upon the teaching of "self-esteem".

Yet, a neuroscientist in London has been looking at it from a brain perspective.

I do have my view on it, and it does come back to parents again. The era they are born (due to the planetary configuration at the time of birth) also has an impact on their development of empathy. Just as talents develop so does empathy. If it is a natural talent of the child, than it is easy to help them to express it. However, an emphatic child can become closed hearted, if life experience doesn't honour their self-respect.

So for instance, the immigration explosion has had a huge impact upon people's self-respect. Young people that can't get jobs, young people that can never get on any housing ladder, be social housing or purchase. Everyone likes to have a place that they can call home, a place that is permanent, and a place that is vital to their stability and for the structure of their lives. This will become even more important to people during this Saturn in Capricorn transit, as structure and stability is a big part of it.

As explained previously, politicians have had a huge impact upon the self-respect of countries. You can also view it through the liberal lens too, how they would like to destroy the history of our countries and remove monuments etc.

Just as what happened to Diana, Queen of Hearts, impacted upon the psyche of the nation, so too it changed people's view and respect for members of the monarchy.
Chiron in Aries, such passion, devotion and dedication, all on purpose. Gerard Batten is an Aries and he rams home the truth.  As Jesus said, the only law worthy of humanity is the law that brings freedom.[Video: http://<a href="https://www.youtube.com/...lbyoWQ</a>]
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Chiron in Aries, such passion, devotion and dedication, all on purpose. Gerard Batten is an Aries and he rams home the truth.  As Jesus said, the only law worthy of humanity is the law that brings freedom.[Video: http://<a href="https://www.youtube.com/...lbyoWQ</a>]
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People Who Like To Be Alone Have These 10 Special Personality Traits.





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Chiron in Aries, such passion, devotion and dedication, all on purpose. Gerard Batten is an Aries and he rams home the truth.  As Jesus said, the only law worthy of humanity is the law that brings freedom.[Video: http://<a href="https://www.youtube.com/...lbyoWQ</a>]
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Excellent thread @KOMMA

Wish I had time to watch all the videos but there are a select few that I definitely want to watch.

I agree 100%....... self-respect is far more important than self-esteem.
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Funny that someone asked me last year if I was incognito.

So let's have a look at that.

"Sometimes it is desired that a person can establish a long-term relationship (such as a reputation) with some other entity, without necessarily disclosing personally identifying information to that entity. In this case, it may be useful for the person to establish a unique identifier, called a pseudonym, with the other entity. Examples of pseudonyms are pen names, nicknames, credit card numbers, student numbers, bank account numbers, etc. A pseudonym enables the other entity to link different messages from the same person and, thereby, to establish a long-term relationship. Pseudonyms are widely used in social networks and other virtual communication, although recently some important service providers like Google try to discourage pseudonymity.

Someone using a pseudonym would be strictly considered to be using "pseudonymity" not "anonymity", but sometimes the latter is used to refer to both (in general, a situation where the legal identity of the person is disguised)"


https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Anonymity



Chiron in Aries, such passion, devotion and dedication, all on purpose. Gerard Batten is an Aries and he rams home the truth.  As Jesus said, the only law worthy of humanity is the law that brings freedom.[Video: http://<a href="https://www.youtube.com/...lbyoWQ</a>]
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Self esteem. The road to pide this is.... When you hold yourself in undeserved esteem... Unrealistic.


Mmm yessss

Respect can only be earned. Self respect seems the surer way.



Spoken in Yoda voice for added irritation.
In times of universal Idiocy... Critical thought becomes a revolutionary act! CUI BONO?
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(01-31-2018, 11:05 PM)KOMMA Wrote: Funny that someone asked me last year if I was incognito.

So let's have a look at that.

"Sometimes it is desired that a person can establish a long-term relationship (such as a reputation) with some other entity, without necessarily disclosing personally identifying information to that entity. In this case, it may be useful for the person to establish a unique identifier, called a pseudonym, with the other entity. Examples of pseudonyms are pen names, nicknames, credit card numbers, student numbers, bank account numbers, etc. A pseudonym enables the other entity to link different messages from the same person and, thereby, to establish a long-term relationship. Pseudonyms are widely used in social networks and other virtual communication, although recently some important service providers like Google try to discourage pseudonymity.

Someone using a pseudonym would be strictly considered to be using "pseudonymity" not "anonymity", but sometimes the latter is used to refer to both (in general, a situation where the legal identity of the person is disguised)"


https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Anonymity




https://www.thefreedictionary.com/incognito

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Chiron in Aries, such passion, devotion and dedication, all on purpose. Gerard Batten is an Aries and he rams home the truth.  As Jesus said, the only law worthy of humanity is the law that brings freedom.[Video: http://<a href="https://www.youtube.com/...lbyoWQ</a>]
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(01-31-2018, 11:13 PM)KOMMA Wrote:
(01-31-2018, 11:05 PM)KOMMA Wrote: Funny that someone asked me last year if I was incognito.

So let's have a look at that.

"Sometimes it is desired that a person can establish a long-term relationship (such as a reputation) with some other entity, without necessarily disclosing personally identifying information to that entity. In this case, it may be useful for the person to establish a unique identifier, called a pseudonym, with the other entity. Examples of pseudonyms are pen names, nicknames, credit card numbers, student numbers, bank account numbers, etc. A pseudonym enables the other entity to link different messages from the same person and, thereby, to establish a long-term relationship. Pseudonyms are widely used in social networks and other virtual communication, although recently some important service providers like Google try to discourage pseudonymity.

Someone using a pseudonym would be strictly considered to be using "pseudonymity" not "anonymity", but sometimes the latter is used to refer to both (in general, a situation where the legal identity of the person is disguised)"


https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Anonymity




https://www.thefreedictionary.com/incognito

Chuckle

Proverbs 25:2 It is the glory of God to conceal a matter; to search out a matter is the glory of kings.

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Chiron in Aries, such passion, devotion and dedication, all on purpose. Gerard Batten is an Aries and he rams home the truth.  As Jesus said, the only law worthy of humanity is the law that brings freedom.[Video: http://<a href="https://www.youtube.com/...lbyoWQ</a>]
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(01-31-2018, 11:18 PM)KOMMA Wrote:
(01-31-2018, 11:13 PM)KOMMA Wrote:
(01-31-2018, 11:05 PM)KOMMA Wrote: Funny that someone asked me last year if I was incognito.

So let's have a look at that.

"Sometimes it is desired that a person can establish a long-term relationship (such as a reputation) with some other entity, without necessarily disclosing personally identifying information to that entity. In this case, it may be useful for the person to establish a unique identifier, called a pseudonym, with the other entity. Examples of pseudonyms are pen names, nicknames, credit card numbers, student numbers, bank account numbers, etc. A pseudonym enables the other entity to link different messages from the same person and, thereby, to establish a long-term relationship. Pseudonyms are widely used in social networks and other virtual communication, although recently some important service providers like Google try to discourage pseudonymity.

Someone using a pseudonym would be strictly considered to be using "pseudonymity" not "anonymity", but sometimes the latter is used to refer to both (in general, a situation where the legal identity of the person is disguised)"


https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Anonymity




https://www.thefreedictionary.com/incognito

Chuckle

Proverbs 25:2 It is the glory of God to conceal a matter; to search out a matter is the glory of kings.

V6sRZf4

Isaiah 49:2 He made my mouth like a sharpened sword, in the shadow of his hand he hid me; he made me into a polished arrow and concealed me in his quiver.

What greater respect is there than that.

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Chiron in Aries, such passion, devotion and dedication, all on purpose. Gerard Batten is an Aries and he rams home the truth.  As Jesus said, the only law worthy of humanity is the law that brings freedom.[Video: http://<a href="https://www.youtube.com/...lbyoWQ</a>]
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