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(03-11-2019, 01:22 AM)Deepsouthlady Wrote: Any other moms out there who feel like kidw and hubby are undercutting u? Blaming u for getting maf because someone else doesnt do what is asked of them.

I have had a off feeling lately and it seems everyone in my house is against me. Anyone else feeling at least keinda the same. Or is it just me dealing with manipulative young teens?

So many of us, when are kids are in their teens, feel that way. Hugs Heartflowers
Just "hang in there" ... They do grow up, sooner or later. Kiss
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(03-11-2019, 01:22 AM)Deepsouthlady Wrote: Any other moms out there who feel like kidw and hubby are undercutting u? Blaming u for getting maf because someone else doesnt do what is asked of them.

I have had a off feeling lately and it seems everyone in my house is against me. Anyone else feeling at least keinda the same. Or is it just me dealing with manipulative young teens?

Welcome to Band Camp!!!!

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(03-11-2019, 01:41 AM)Deepsouthlady Wrote:
(03-11-2019, 01:22 AM)Deepsouthlady Wrote: Any other moms out there who feel like kidw and hubby are undercutting u? Blaming u for getting maf because someone else doesnt do what is asked of them.

I have had a off feeling lately and it seems everyone in my house is against me. Anyone else feeling at least keinda the same. Or is it just me dealing with manipulative young teens?

Oh nvm. Maybe i am a little to drunkled, as slappy says, but just tired of always being wrong!

Lmao ...Drunkled

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Are your children male or female?
It makes all the difference. I’m not sure of what your conflict is but I’ll tell you about mine. Boys and men like to do their chores outside. Bushhoging, mowing the yard, weedeating, picking up limbs that have blown down, things like that. We absolutely despise doing housework of any kind. My wife nags and bitches about housework help while she works two days a week and I work five. My boy goes to school five days and has at least two hours of homework every night. Somehow, she’s the one that always needs the help.
We always help, sometimes we bitch about it, sometimes we don’t.
Men and women are different, I’m sure if I had girls I would be in a different situation.
It really doesn’t matter what you’re conflict is, some kind of compromise on both sides is your best solution.
Maybe I just needed to vent a little too.
Good luck.
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(03-11-2019, 02:09 AM)VonLud Wrote:
(03-11-2019, 02:00 AM)Deepsouthlady Wrote:
(03-11-2019, 01:48 AM)PickleSnout Wrote: Once they know they can play that card, it becomes a full on manipulation game.
Tell them you don't care, the world is not fair, and handle their stuff with no bullshit because YOU said so.
They may call you names or be huffy. But the manipulative bullshit will falll away when you stop letting that win the day.

I really try that, but then they get their dad to join in with them and i just want to got to bed, or dissappear into the bsck acre and surrounding woods behind my house.. Its worked out eventually but, til then, i feel like a donkey, when I know i am not

Just normal mom issues i guess. Probably me being oversensitive. I get thwt way sometimes. Like something is coming and no one else understands. .

But thats awesome advice @PickleSnout thanx

My good thought to you.

Never one to instigate strife, but you got outnumbered and that sucks.

Power Up.

No three way against you.

Be heard.

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(03-11-2019, 02:29 AM)Frigg Wrote:
(03-11-2019, 01:22 AM)Deepsouthlady Wrote: Any other moms out there who feel like kidw and hubby are undercutting u? Blaming u for getting maf because someone else doesnt do what is asked of them.

I have had a off feeling lately and it seems everyone in my house is against me. Anyone else feeling at least keinda the same. Or is it just me dealing with manipulative young teens?

Welcome to Band Camp!!!!

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(03-11-2019, 02:32 AM)Capnron Wrote: Are your children male or female?
It makes all the difference. I’m not sure of what your conflict is but I’ll tell you about mine. Boys and men like to do their chores outside. Bushhoging, mowing the yard, weedeating, picking up limbs that have blown down, things like that. We absolutely despise doing housework of any kind. My wife nags and bitches about housework help while she works two days a week and I work five. My boy goes to school five days and has at least two hours of homework every night. Somehow, she’s the one that always needs the help.
We always help, sometimes we bitch about it, sometimes we don’t.
Men and women are different, I’m sure if I had girls I would be in a different situation.
It really doesn’t matter what you’re conflict is, some kind of compromise on both sides is your best solution.
Maybe I just needed to vent a little too.
Good luck.

Wisdom Cap'n...

Think for yourself
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(03-11-2019, 02:32 AM)Capnron Wrote: Are your children male or female?
It makes all the difference. I’m not sure of what your conflict is but I’ll tell you about mine. Boys and men like to do their chores outside. Bushhoging, mowing the yard, weedeating, picking up limbs that have blown down, things like that. We absolutely despise doing housework of any kind. My wife nags and bitches about housework help while she works two days a week and I work five. My boy goes to school five days and has at least two hours of homework every night. Somehow, she’s the one that always needs the help.
We always help, sometimes we bitch about it, sometimes we don’t.
Men and women are different, I’m sure if I had girls I would be in a different situation.
It really doesn’t matter what you’re conflict is, some kind of compromise on both sides is your best solution.
Maybe I just needed to vent a little too.
Good luck.

I have both a girl and boy. I dont work outside home, but do homeschool. We r remodeling a bathroom and it seems everything i suggest and say about chqnge of choree, son is helping with remodel, is wrong! Also all my suggestions on how to set the new bathroom r wrong too. Normally our house is quite harmonious. But lately i feel like sleeping in a tent in woods behind my house. Plus. Kids not wanting to do normal stuff cuz they helping with remodel. Its quite frustrating. Especially when i seem to be doing wll around house. That doesnt include remodel, but does include tsking care of 5 inside cats and 3 inside dog.
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(03-11-2019, 02:30 AM)Frigg Wrote:
(03-11-2019, 01:41 AM)Deepsouthlady Wrote:
(03-11-2019, 01:22 AM)Deepsouthlady Wrote: Any other moms out there who feel like kidw and hubby are undercutting u? Blaming u for getting maf because someone else doesnt do what is asked of them.

I have had a off feeling lately and it seems everyone in my house is against me. Anyone else feeling at least keinda the same. Or is it just me dealing with manipulative young teens?

Oh nvm. Maybe i am a little to drunkled, as slappy says, but just tired of always being wrong!

Lmao   ...Drunkled

Lmao Lmao
We the people are the rightful masters of both Congress and the courts, not to overthrow the Constitution but to overthrow the men who pervert the Constitution.
Abraham Lincoln


The very word 'secrecy' is repugnant in a free and open society; and we are as a people inherently and historically opposed to secret societies, to secret oaths, and to secret proceedings.
John F. Kennedy
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(03-11-2019, 02:42 AM)Deepsouthlady Wrote:
(03-11-2019, 02:32 AM)Capnron Wrote: Are your children male or female?
It makes all the difference. I’m not sure of what your conflict is but I’ll tell you about mine. Boys and men like to do their chores outside. Bushhoging, mowing the yard, weedeating, picking up limbs that have blown down, things like that. We absolutely despise doing housework of any kind. My wife nags and bitches about housework help while she works two days a week and I work five. My boy goes to school five days and has at least two hours of homework every night. Somehow, she’s the one that always needs the help.
We always help, sometimes we bitch about it, sometimes we don’t.
Men and women are different, I’m sure if I had girls I would be in a different situation.
It really doesn’t matter what you’re conflict is, some kind of compromise on both sides is your best solution.
Maybe I just needed to vent a little too.
Good luck.

I have both a girl and boy. I dont work outside home, but do homeschool. We r remodeling a bathroom and it seems everything i suggest and say about chqnge of choree, son is helping with remodel, is wrong! Also all my suggestions on how to set the new bathroom r wrong too. Normally our house is quite harmonious. But lately i feel like sleeping in a tent in woods behind my house. Plus. Kids not wanting to do normal stuff cuz they helping with remodel. Its quite frustrating. Especially when i seem to be doing wll around house. That doesnt include remodel, but does include tsking care of 5 inside cats and 3 inside dog.
I really do know how you feel.
You know what I think when they think I’m not pulling my weight?
Fuck it. Can they do any better?
Then I put this on.



After that I start looking at vacations.



Trust me, it helps everyone.
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